Typical, beta husband:
"Please, honey, you haven't done that in like a year," he begs his wife, his voice shaking.
"You know I don't like to give blow jobs," she says, "they're demeaning."
"But...but I like it."
"Listen, I'm kind of tired, maybe next weekend we can drink some wine and maybe fool around a little...but not that."
Typical, alpha man:
Says nothing, watches her walk into the room, wearing just a garter belt, stockings, and heels, spreads his legs, points to the ground. "Kneel and crawl," he says.
She feels a tingling between her legs, a sensation she never felt with her husband. "But..." she starts to say.
"Now beg," he orders her.
"Beg?" she asks shocked.
"Beg," he repeats.
She kneels, for a split second thinks of her husband, thinks of him begging her to do this, realizes the difference between her husband and her lover, what makes a man, a real man. "Please, Sir, may I suck your cock."